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Well,  I had  an interesting , for  lack of a   better word , experience this  morning. I guess the better word would be ” scary”.

I was  taking a shower, which is no  big deal, right. Except, it is for me, at this time in my  life. I am having a  physical challenge with my  mobility. To that end, I have this great teak  folding  bench in the shower from Bed Bath and Beyond.  It  comes  in handy for shaving my legs too, as well as  giving a total Zen – like  experience to a shower.  It is the  perfect size  as well, it fits  into the  narrower  bathtubs. I  LOVE this  bench seat.   Plus, it   folds easily in  2 in a  matter of seconds.  I looked online to see if BBB  has  it on their website, but they  currently don’t have it listed  anymore. ( Probably  bc it is     below ZERO  here in the  Chicago area as I write this ,  or for some other reason  that is  unknown to me).  It is a very elegant  piece  of   furniture and it  could be  used outside as well. i can’t say  enough good things about this  thing.

So,  I am sitting on the  bench. I had  my towels on the toilet seat    bc it is an an easy reach  from the shower .   Well,  the towels had fallen to the  other side   of the   toilet and I couldn’t reach them.  The simple thing to do, of course, would be to stand   up and  just  continue on. Except,  what if  you couldn’t stand  up, for whatever reason?   Which was what  my situation was. So, I made the  mistake of   simply leaning to the side  to see if I could get the towel.  BAD IDEA.  Because, the  bench,  of course   collapsed in  2.  So,  somehow, though, I was able to  reach the towel anyway.   However, I   had  also  sort of  ” collapsed” to the shower  floor. My legs were  folded  in some sort of ca-ca  way.    So there I am, sitting there, with a towel  only  half on me,  bc I  couldn’t stand  up fully.

This probably sounds weird to someone who  has no idea what it is like to lose  mobility in  any  part of  your  body. Imagine that , one side of  your  body,  both arm and leg, are not working.  How can  you function?  Well,  usually,   you have to  be creative.  Which is what I did.  EFT TO THE RESCUE!!!

EFT IS  MY “GO TO ”  NOW for so many things.  So  of course, by this  point, I am  so  psst off and frustrated that I   feel  like   taking a  vodka   bath.  (  that is another story for another time)   But, since I was sort of trapped there,   I had to   figure out  a way  out of there so I   could get dressed etc.

SO the first round of tapping was on the frustration and the anger of this happening. ” Even  though I am so  angry that this  happened  to me….”I am  SO psst  off.”

“How did I let  this happen?” etc.

At this  point, tears  came out, as they should.  Tears are a release and a good thing. Then, I did a round of  tapping on  gratitude  that 1.  I didn’t get  hurt  2.  that  nothing was  broken, aka either the  bench or  say, the shower  faucet.    This all took a  matter of  maybe 10  minutes.  You have  to understand that I also was  having a serious  issue ” unfolding”  my legs. So I  did a round of tapping on  being folded  up like a  pretzel (   not a good  position to be in ).  Then, after a   few deep  breaths,  I was able to  unkink  one  leg, then the other, and then grab onto the  shower   handle  bar on the shower  wall and  pull myself  up.

So, i made it out of there  OK.   EFT  can be used for anything at all.   Seriously.  It  really comes in  handy in    little   emergencies  like  this when your  body, or parts of it,   gives out on  you and won’t  co- operate. IT INSTANTLY calms  you down and clears the brain so  you can think  better.


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